
A person who genuinely cares for you, will tell you the truth in regards to your vices. Even if they risk losing your relationship regardless of how strong it is. That’s top tier unconditional love.
An enabler of your vices does not love you unconditionally. They love what you bring to the table in regards to their own vices and pleasures. This love is strictly conditional. They don’t care about the long-term effects of your poor choices, they only focus on their own short-term gratification through and with you. When you see them for what they are, you’ll understand how these are not good for you and your soul. This can be a romantic partner, a friend, and even someone in your family etc.
Lots of addictions happen due to enabling partners, friends and circumstances. Be aware of who is making you more enslaved and who is trying to release you from your own toxic prison.