Don’t accept less than you would recommend to your daughters/sons.
Neither forget that you are a role model for your children, so if you stay in a toxic place/situation, you are showing them to succumb to the toxicity. Rather, if you show them that you choose self-love and strength instead of “drowning” in your darkness, you will inspire them to be brave enough to do the same.
You are the one writing the narrative for the future of your kids. Do it wisely