Hey! You!!!! Yeah, you sitting there half-broken, devastated and unable to take those steps ahead . What are you doing? Why are you procrastinating? Didn’t last year go as you planned? Ah, you’re hurt, sad and frightened? Oh, your life did the 180 degree rails and you got severely injured and smashed your pretty face? Figures. Just sit there licking your wounds. This will surely help. Continue feeling sorry for yourself. Maybe I should bring you some coffee and buns also!?! A hot dog maybe? Or a vegan falafel with extra vinegar? And while I’m at it, can I get you one bottle of the finest scotch as well, so you really can drown yourself in pointless pity and continue the descent into the dark abyss you yourself unknowingly are creating?

My friend, I don’t doubt your pain for one second. I really don’t. You have my sympathy and my deepest condolences. I’ve been to hell and back several times myself. The shit I have gone through is for the books. I had a heart attack at the age of 32. I have experienced our family-business gone bankrupt with additional consequences. I have several times been backstabbed with everlasting wounds. And this is only the tip of the iceberg.

However, in hindsight, this made me stronger. And that’s an understatement. I had my lessons and transformed them to future weaponry. I am not the person I was 10 years ago. Hell no, I am not the person I was even a year ago. I’m a wiser and more experienced me. Thank God!

And… so will you. I’m 10000% sure. You don’t see it yet. You are not always meant to. Sometimes you are supposed to climb those uphill mountains in the densests of fogs without a clear view to the top. Fully bewildered and confused. This is only the final part of your battle, my friend. Before the sun rays just spear through and hit and heal your beautiful face. And suddenly all the fog will be gone and you’ll find yourself at the top glancing at the greatest of views and the smoothest of downhill-slides .

Time heals. It always does. But everything is about how you handle those obstacles thrown at you. Do you go around and around in circles or do you view your problems as possible lifelessons and try to break the roundabouts? The choice is only yours to make. Only you decide how fast you get up after being beaten down time after time.

So knowing this; use your amazing lifeforce and jump up on your feet and take control of your life! When life hits you, hit it back. If you are beaten ten times, well… show that you are willing to get up eleven, twelve, thirteen times. Don’t compromise. Don’t play dead. Don’t just take blow after blow.

Hell no.

Get the f*** up! Even with shaking legs and broken back. Even with tears flowing from every corner of your eyes. Even with blood spilling from your open heart-wound. You have something that life underestimates. Terrific, awesome and ultimate comeback-power. Use it. Embrace it. Hit back with it as your weapon of friggin’ mass destruction.

You never lose if you don’t give up. Never! It will only take time, but that’s it. And for every single win, you grow. Hence you will not only go through it, you will have to GROW through it. Just shift your mindset!

Bro, you are the creator of your happiness. You always was and always will be. No one has the power to own your unique key of happiness. No one! It’s only yours to own and use. Remember this.

You don’t know how awesome you are. The power in you is greater than what your fear-based ego and the society as whole made you believe. You are a king among kings. No one has walked all of your footsteps, so no one has survived life as you did. Thus no one can judge you for the journey you have outlasted. No one!

So now it’s time to take back this power. Break the chains holding you back in this misery! Why wait? Just do it! Trust in yourself and have faith. You are able to create miracles, if you want.

Because, my dear, in the future your tears will have given nutrition to the most tasteful of fruits.

I know it will