Why are you feeling unwanted?
Why are you feeling not good enough?
When did you stop loving yourself fully?
Why are you trying so hard to be perfect?
Why do you want to make people like you?
My friend, sometimes you are your own enemy. Stop seeking external validation to heal your scars. Stop letting others define your worth. Stop matching other narratives to yours.
If every person on earth did the inner-work thoroughly, they wouldn’t have time to judge others, because only ignorance leads to lack of humility and humbleness. The more we learn, the more we understand that we don’t know, hence, why listen to those being arrogant?
The first, and only, person you should try to convince of your worth, is yourself. Once you learn to be the authentic and genuine you, your life will never be the same.
Our surroundings mirror how we see ourselves. If we see ourselves as defect, we will surround ourselves with people treating us as such. Because we subconsciously tell ourselves that we don’t deserve better. Hence, we are diggin our grave deeper.
Don’t! The devil on your shoulder is the one keeping you in this state, going around in this dark circle. Rather listen to the white guy with wings on the other shoulder. He is telling you that whatever you are and whatever you have done, doesn’t define you for the whole life. You do. You define what you want to be. You define how powerless the skeletons in your closet can be. You define how scarry your inner-demons are.
If you had seen how beautiful, amazing and pure your inner-child is, you’d been proud of yourselves. It’s never too late to bring it forth and become closer to it. The comeback-power in mankind is extraordinary. But everything starts with you and how you see yourself . The kinder your treat yourselves and others, the more your self-worth will increase, thus leading to more self-love because you start seeing the value you have for yourself and others .
Go and get yourself up from the dark pit, champ. You are much more powerful and wonderful than you think .