When we chase someone treating us badly time after time, we are pampering their egos. We are telling them that they are more worth than we are. We are showing them that we will be there regardless of how they treat us. We are making them take us for granted. We are indirectly telling our inner-child/soul it isn’t good enough to deserve a balanced relationship. When we are not fighting for ourselves, we are letting us be vulnerable for lots of hurt. We are, in the bigger picture, devaluing ourselves. We are not protecting our inner-child. We are not loving ourselves as we should.
When we change the narrative, huge change happens. We set boundaries for our soul and self-worth. We show that we are not afraid to leave if we are treated poorly. We teach that if someone wants to be with us, they would need to be on their toes, transform and work for the relationship as we do, or else they will lose the emperor/empress we are. We convey that we are not accepting breadcrumbs nor being just a puny alternative or final resort. We make them see our real worth, by standing strong in the fact that we are not dependent on anyone and can fully manage on our own.
Fight for your inner-child and worth in every aspect of life. We are too valuable to accept less than we give! ❤️🔥👊💪🙏